Heart + Smart = Strong Mental Game
Sean's Soccer Notes
From the Heart
I have always played with a lot of passion, but I never had a "mental game." I am changing that. I still play with heart, but I am also learning to play smart.
It was clear from an early age that soccer was my sport. Every time I stepped foot on a field. I was quick, had good skills, was always ready to play, and knew how to find the back of the net. I loved it and never thought twice about laying it all on the line in practice and games. I worked and played with all of my heart, but how strong was my mental game?
During my career I enjoyed a moderate level of success, especially since I lacked decent coaching (football coaches and untrained Dads) and never saw a pro soccer game until I was 14. In high school I was all-conference, all-region, and a hair away from the Texas all-state team. I played striker for four years on a Division 3 college team. We never made the NCAA tournament, but we won our conference and played like we meant it. In college I received honors for all-conference three times and narrowly missed the all-American team my junior and senior years. I was asked to play on the local professional team after my senior season where I played for two years.
The Mental Game? What's that?
All of that training, all of those hours working on fitness and skills; not once did I hear the term "Mental Game." Not once did a coach direct me to write down goals, improve my understanding of the game, or train my ability to find my Peak Level of performance. We were asked to play with intensity, to hustle, to try our best; that I consider playing with "heart" and having a good attitude. These are essential for an athlete, but it is not the same as having the mental skill set needed to succeed at higher levels.
In college, we played under the guidance of an enthusiastic young English coach who had a skill for motivating people with humor and amateur sports psychology, but he had no consistent system for improving our "Mental Game." There was no fine tuning available, no tools to move beyond the current level and find Optimal performance or the elusive "Zone" that great athletes access regularly. In the professional leagues, it was no better. We were left on our own to focus and motivate. The level of play increased, but our mental games floundered, and no one had a clue what to do about it. Attitudes flared, egos clashed, and though the skill levels had improved, the camaraderie and fun had gone away.
What we needed, what I needed, I did not discover until I returned to soccer after an 8 year break. When I stepped back on the field, my skills and fitness had gone way south, but I had learned a few things that came in handy. I had been studying yoga, nutrition, and the healing arts and I understood the concepts of self-reflection, breath control, and the power of the mind. Little did I know that these were the very things that champion athletes had been using since the Soviets and East Germans revolutionized athletic training in the 1980's, but they were not yet widely known in any but the most elite sports circles.
My "mental game" really began to come into focus when I took the Pro-Sports Profile (http://www.6dsports.com/psp) and learned that the mental game can be measured very accurately. This tool taught me the power of "six dimensions" thinking and the science of axiology. Using sports axiology (the Pro-Sports Profile) in combination with the sports psychology tools that we have put into our Mental Game Journal, it became incredibly clear that this is a combination that people should know about. My family and I (all athletes from birth) are teaching athletes at all levels how to use these tools to improve their levels of achievement and satisfaction as athletes (these tools and their use reach far beyond the field as well).
It's a whole new ball game
I am now 37 years old and I feel like my soccer career has just begun. My goals are different than they would be if I were an 18 year old, but what I gain from being in shape, competing, leaving it all on the field, and finding my current "peak" level of performance is no less exciting and fulfilling now.
I will keep you posted on how the upcoming season goes as I complete my first season using the new and improved Six Dimensions Mental Game Journal.
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